So here's my thinking. I don't know if this is straight thinking or not, but here it is.
W has already expressed the desire for us to be in seperate places. I don't think that holds any weight.
She's also said that the kids need to stay in the home. She takes them to school, she brings them home, while I'm working. This is the argument that she makes that I should move out.
And from what I understand, she could easily go to her lawyer and make a motion to have me evicted.
We've already both filed papers for joint legal and physical custody of the children, and we've agreed to mediation, so I don't think I need to worry about "abandonment". So it might be time for me to get an apartment.
So, in terms of concequences. The thing she's talked about worrying most about is "losing me". So I think I should tell her that, if this doesn't stop, I will not be her friend, I will not be her family, I will not spend time with her, I will not be a part of her life.
