BigJohn, Sandi, Sara,

I know BJ has his hands full, and I am in the same boat. I can use some guidance.

If we go legal to legal D rather than Mediation, what are my chances of escaping this thing with some skin left?

I am hurting big time thinking about my upcoming mess, and not trying to hijack, as reading your replies to BJ is so similar to my sitch..

M: 41
STBXW: 41
D: 9
Bomb: 4/26/09

On board the D train now..

"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."