Just consider finances one of the "rooms" you must cover. Talking about it will help her, don't fix it but listen.
The Greek loves having a schedule. I can plan on the fly and love being spontaneous. Imagine my surprise when I found out she wanted more of that. What a woman tells you it not always what they mean.
Old joke from the Benny Hill show. Husband and wife lying in bed. He looks over amorously and asks, "When you say no do you really mean yes? She answers, "No." Then the confused husband look.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.