Snodderly- All our stuff has been divided. Financially we are completely independent. The paperwork has all been filed, financial agreements signed and submitted. I'm safe. I'm in a better place now that when we had joint accounts.
My issue with the bills wasn't a protection thing. She has been all gung ho about getting split up. I was surprised she called me to ask if i was going to pay this stupid $20 bill and to close the accounts that were in her name to begin with (elec, phone). I moved out a month and a half ago. She can easily take care of these thing on her own. It just seemed like an odd request. It is almost as if she wants to be divorced, but doesn't want to take care of crossing the t's herself. Like i'm somehow supposed to participate in this process.
All the paperwork for the D has been filed. I'm set. The waiting period ends Oct 8. Barring a major departure from the current status quo, it will all be official when the judge signs off on it.
