Originally Posted By: Deep

As for that email, you might consider making it very clear to him that trying to put some distance in the M is and was his idea that he conveyed very clearly to you. You were, am, and will not be for it, but won't be sitting on your nicely dressed, absolutely fabulous behind waiting for him to have a change of heart.


What Deep said. Kindly, calmly, matter-of-fact.


Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!