Originally Posted By: girlfromoz
He seems to have forgotten that he started this whole process and was the one who wanted out, but he keeps now turning it back at me as though I am the one who has to decide if he stays or goes. I just don't get it.

Feel that by saying what he is saying he is taking control of the situation again rather than me having control.


Bingo.


Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!