I think Dennis the Menace will ultimatelly screw this up for us.... The way I feel right now, I will suggest that we see each other witout the kids for a while. i know I probably sound a little selfish and anti children but I am not. Her kids are just not ready, they are very clingy and crave their mom's attention very often. That may be normal for 12 and 13 year olds but when i compare D8 with them, they seem very immature. Well, nobody said it would be easy.