Who knows? Good chance they feel that they haven't been in control in the relationship before. Maybe you should be careful what you wish for...you might get it. Odd are that the me againgt you dynamic has lessened.

Just as I finished writing my last post W came in. ML. Lots of kissing. Some cuddling. Talk consisted of "it's been so long, etc."

No R talk. She got distant for a few after, but didn't recoil. She just said she was having a moment.

It was nice. Unexpected. And really hot. Still don't know if it's reconciliation or just booty calls from someone who has been lonely.


Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.