The anger must be processed and expressed. This is not the time for forgiveness. Holding in the anger will eat at you over time. It's how you let it out that matters. Mars and Venus Starting Over is a great book (is it in print in Greek?). It was one of the key readings that elevated me to the next level of detaching and letting go.

What might work better tho'...is finding a handsome Greek man, a big bottle of olive oil and, while standing under the Temple of Hephaestus in the ancient Agora.......

....oh....never mind......

FIB


Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;