"But I can't help sometimes but think she is too far gone for us to get anything out of it. "
You need to start thinking about this already. I don't know if you realize how sad and needy you come across on your posts. Enough about the rings already.
If you are sounding this bad here, Retrouvaille is going to be a disaster because you are going to EXPECT her to answer a certain way. And when she starts talking negatively, you're going to be all doom and gloom and who wants to get together with that?
You have to be as if she is already gone and show her the man she WANTS to be with. Not because you're her H, but because you are the most interesting and attractive damnn guy on the planet.
That's how you do it. You need to shake things up and do something different because your R is dying a slowwww death right before our eyes.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
