Dont go through all the scenario's in your head wait and deal with what H says when he comes home.. You have certainly rattled his cage, if he asks should he go try and ignore those questions, but if pushed just say that you want to work on your M still but its still his choice..
Make sure that you get lots of photos of you all done up nice, put them where he can see them when he is next around, as one it will allay his fears of someone else, but at the same time show him you are not waiting around for him but getting out there and if you chose too you could find someone else!
Thinking of you!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!