I'm a bit like Deep in that I'm not sure how to respond here. My initial thought was that he was trying to reassert his control in this situation and says he is going to leave to give you space. However, in reality perhaps this really suits his purpose and justifies his own desire to move out. perhaps my thoughts are too influenced by my own sitch though. His constant texts/calls and emails indicate a bit of a panic though.
What to do now? Where is Gucci when you need him!!??
As it's dinner time you may have already had a convo with him. Will check in later.