Comments definitely needed before I even consider responding to this one.
"Hi,
I suppose things are progressing along and not at a good state.
It seems that you have moved on and have found a new interest?
It might be better if I moved out and gave you some freedom?
Just let me know.
Bub"
Keep your response short and sweet and clueless.
Maybe, "I'm not certain what you are talking about, H. It is still my preference that we work on our M, so I am confused."
Something like that. Your H wants to cake eat...go live his single life, then come home to comfort and routine. Dork.
Your H will probably reply with the things he's noticed...and your response to him then should be something like, "I'm sorry you are perceiving things in that manner. I'm just trying to enjoy life more. :)"
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!