The kids and I were in your town just yesterday visting with my mom right across from the Portland airport.
The break up talk went ok, however, she was pretty upset about not getting to go on vacation. I have not heard from her since a phone call I made when in Hawaii to her.
It is very early in your situation. So many of the affairs do fail or the wayward spouse finds they are not what they expected. There is a good chance that given a long enough time away from each other that your H may come to some awakening that what you and he had in the marriage is worth preserving.
I know the emotional pain you are experiencing now seems so unbearable. With time and keeping yourself busy and happy, it will pass. I know that is like telling a person who is sea sick that it is all in their head, as there is no easy way to move forward for you right now.
