Personally I have gotten as much out of the relating/projecting posts as I have from the objective ones.
Actually, I think it is quite a stretch to swear full objectivity.
On my thread right now, getting input from the guy who left is so helpful and pacifying.
I welcome all of it. Of course, who am I to project that you should feel the same?
Besides, most of us do have our biases anyaway (for example, your loathing of French people and assumptions about H and his accent which doesn't actually exist). We paint pictures in our minds tainted by our biases and certainly our heightened sensitivities right now. So what?
Just food for thought.
Thank you aliveandkicking. I have been and am both a WAW and LBS. I have no idea who anyone is on these boards but sometimes I feel for the other side ( having been there ) and I think that maybe pointing something out could evoke empathy from the poster. Food for thought / another perspective.
I know all the men on this board are not my husbands SP and for that I am truely thankful. ]
