Uh-oh, WAW in crisis. Tried to jump from one moving horse to another, but OM was having none of it. Nice way to put it, he didn't want responsibility for breaking up her family. Not, he didn't care to take on a new wife and children. Hmmm. Good way to spin fear of commitment. So now she has to clean the house, metaphorically. Yep, she has to put her house in order cuz it's falling down and she has nowhere to go.