As far as her being all over the place .... you could assume she's trying to mess with you, or you could assume SHE has no clue what will make her happy, none at all, and is just giving voice to her emotions from moment to moment. Doesn't really make any difference, since you can't know for sure either way.
Focus on your plans for yourself and your beautiful daughters. You are learning and growing a lot.
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