Second, you cannot control any of the things that are getting you worked up.
You have to show her an attitude that says you will be just fine without her. This is where detachment comes in.
Show her you are ready to deal with anything that she throws at you, and deal with it like a man.
What is your other option? Remember, you're already dead. Once you accept that, then you aren't afraid of dying and get on with the business at hand.
You and I both know that you stand NO chance if you fall apart. So, come on. Get out what you need to get out away from her and get your head cleared for the fight.
