I will hop over to your thread when I get a minute today and have a look.
I haven't done anything about setting boundaries as I really don't know how or what it entails. I am trying not to rock the boat too much at the moment, just going about doing things I want to do slowly now pulling back on being his housekeeper. I want to be an adored and respected wife, friend and lover not someone that is just there to cook wash and iron and nothing else.