Hi, Blue,

I think you should take your trip. It's a great GAL activity and I liked your mindset when you talked about it.

My input on your letter is similar to Sara's. You can't MAKE him feel anything. H feels what he chooses to feel, even if that choice is unconscious.

Example: "I really want you to know that I am sorry if I made you feel inferior, ..."

Revision: I am sorry you felt inferior.

You can even say, "That was never my intent."

The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

My sitch - Divorce Busted!
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137