Hi guys, everyone out for a long weekend huh? Well, not in Greece
I had a quiet weekend with kids and family. I went and saw my monk today. He was here for a few days. I talked to him about forgiveness. He said it is far too early, he said HE is mad at stbxh for lying (him included). He said "destroying a famiy like that is worse that tearing down a church in God's eyes". You know I believe but I am not very...dedicated (dont know the right word) and the reason I like this person is because he is very down to earth and practical.
He told me to focus on my kids and keep my distance from H, he said "that may help him too". He actually said I shouldnt invite him to my son's birthday or school or anywhere. Of course I cant do that, for my son, not for stbxH. He is very much for tough love. gucci and puppy would love this guy. That harsh!!! He said stbxH has not hit bottom yet and I should expect to see him do. I doubt that.
Anyway, I am ok. Thoughts of them are fading quickly, much faster than I thought they would. I guess my detachement kept me protected some.
It has been raining in Athens and I love rain. Especially when in bed with someone. I think I will carry my D in my bed tonight and snuggle -LOL Take care, hope everyone is having fun, K
He said stbxH has not hit bottom yet and I should expect to see him do. I doubt that.
