I'm stealing this from someone here - and I wish I knew who.

You may not want her back, and no one would argue with you.

But do you want her forward?

The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

My sitch - Divorce Busted!
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137