A Little Epiphany - (and a newbie delurking)

[Dia]

Quick, put it under the house yourself and don't mention it. He will probably not even ask where it went. Why encourage him to visit her?

Hmm, good idea - let me think about that. She doesn't live here, so he wouldn't be visiting her - just dropping the stuff at her parents which is bound to be awkward for him. (Note: I *want* him to feel awkward. There are consequences for his behavior and he needs to feel them.) Rationale: I think he needs to be the one to remove her stuff from the house, not me. Kinda like it's the alcoholic who needs to pour out the bottles, not the alcoholic's wife.

BUT - I will think about what you said. Here's the risk - if *I* put them down there, more anger could fall on me for meddling vs. him doing it. I suppose I could ask...

Ok, F it. They're going under the house!