A Little Epiphany - (and a newbie delurking)

[Dia]

Continued rehabilitation of the guest room today. And it got down to the point where the friggen' Big Wheel and two boxes of OW daughter's toys were just in my way, literally as well as metaphorically. They're sitting in a neat pile by the front door.

They need to leave. Under the house, in H's trunk to be dropped off, launched off the back deck with a catapault - I don't care.

I will handle it casually. "SIL had mentioned getting them back to her, so maybe he could put them in his car or under the house. There just isn't room in the guest room if we want to keep decluttering..."

Yes there's a touch of anger, resentment, jealousy, etc - but mostly I feel empowered. My house, my husband, my mental space - and OW is slowly getting shoved into a smaller and smaller corner of it until she's gone.

I haven't forgotten you, blue! I'll swing by before the end of the day. I'm waiting until my head is 100% on straight before I risk giving insight or advice.