Moving forward

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Why did you take the wedding pics down? Because you're p!ssed? Or b/c an A is a deal breaker for you? My point in the questions is that you MUST KNOW WHAT YOU'RE DOING AND WWWHHHHHYYYY! I understand your emotions at this time are HIGH and runinng WIlD. But this is NOT THE TIME to go with emotion - you need to think. And you want to look like a thinking, calculating man at this time...not a mad boy. So don't put the emails up in place of the wedding pics. It looks childish.

Not only that - you would be tipping your hand about how you KNOW. When you talk with her about this, she will likely try to make the moment about YOU and HOW YOU KNOW and WERE YOU SNOOPING. But you will be in control. You will tell her that you know and that's what we're going to talk about now. And you will not back off of that position.

Now, back to is an A a deal breaker. Get in the car, go to a restaurant or watering hole that YOU like and eat while you consider your options. She's being unfaithful. Still want her? Then go sketch out that plan. OR...can't live with it? Then sketch out THAT plan. My point is you have some thinking to do. The FEELING is coming whether you like it or not. But don't let those feelings make a single decision. THINK through the matter. Think twice - act once. But YOU call the shots.

And Bill, you do have to reconsider your legal approach here - and that is NOT based on emotion. That is a sound, reasonable approach. I didn't have an A...but I've said it here before and I'll say it again - when Coach hired the nastiest, toughest broad in the legal field to come after me, I reconsidered what I wanted very quickly. He made me face realities, including the legal realities. Get tough, Bill.

Ready. Set. Go out to eat.

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