Go and "be" there. Be present and and supportive for your wife and her family. You don't have to go in to see Grandma. It would be a loving thing to do for all of them.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
