Wife did come last night, but went to hospital right away to see grandmother who was rushed there. She has terminal cancer and it looks like these are the last days. Her grandmother is my favourite member of my wife's family, but she does not want to see me since she is aware of situation between my wife and I. It upsets me, but no time to be selfish. I will have to deal with the fact that someone I care about, wouldn't see me on their death bed. That will be tough.
Question is - how do I support my wife and "be there" for her without breaking dbing principles. I have often failed to be there at tough times in the past, and don't want to do that again.
The R talk was supposed to be today. I really think this would be a bad time. I will make sure I mention nothing until wife does and will just "play house" and act as if until then.
