W got on facebook in March or so, and started connecting with old frields. When we had our 10 year anniversery celebration on June 6, she invited some of them.
So this guy - had some long-term relationship that I guess had recently disolved. He had met up with another high-school friend that had serious emotional problems, and slept with her. I remember W telling he how she "yelled" at him on FB for this. When they all came to the party, they went out afterwards (include W) and apparently this woman caused a big scene.
W has been down to the bay area to visit these friends since. She's been focusing on this woman that was pregnant, has since given birth. Has been talking all week about how she's making meals to take to her. But she established awhile back about doing this on labor day. Dear god. It's all coming together now. This is why she filed for D so quickly to avoid I guess feeling guilty on labor day weekend.
This guy is a - what - lobbyist to get government money for bike paths. I TALKED to this guy at our 10 year anniversery party. I let him into my home.
I know he was one of the group of friends W went down there to see in July. I asked recently and she said she hadn't been in touch with him. Actually she mentioned recently that he hadn't gotten the government funding that they were counting out (go figure, in this economy).
I've been blind. I did not think in a million years she would do this.
She'll be back sometime Monday. I'm not sure what to do with myself until then.
