Moving forward

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Read your early posts. OK....this little girl has been lying to you and playing you. Remember when she told you she cannot imagine the prospect of dating and introducing a stepfather into the pic? Really????? If I understand your timeline, she has been out of town recently - before this event, right? I'd look into that, too. Sounds like she might be .... dating ..... as we speak.

Here's what you do, brother. You make a list of what needs to be done to protect yourself and your children - and you get busy doing it. Reading your posts, you are a REALLY NICE GUY. And she is so counting on that. You don't have to be an a$$, but you do have to step up and be a man who pulls in the draw bridge on your castle and insist on loyalty/honesty.

In-house separation could be translated by the cake eater as :"let me live off this dime until OM and I get the plan squared away or until I figure out how to walk away with the max or I get the nice guy to leave the house." Throw her right off guard by presenting her with a plan of your own which must include transparency or she has to go. Not negotiable. And if OM has a W, let your W know that everyone is entitled to this info.

Harsh stuff on a Sunday morning, I know. But as Coach likes to say, "You can handle it."

Greek