Hey there Bill. Haven't read your entire story - just the little bit you posted this morning about knowing where she is and should you call. My vote is NO. Do not call her. Rather, gather yourself with the time you have before you SEE her again. Make certain you are correct about the email and what they seem to be telling you. When you see her, ask her to say what's true about where she was - that you know but this is her opportunity to be a Big Girl and stand for what she believes.
If she is a Big Girl and tells the truth, time for her to leave. If she is a Peri - Menapausal Mean Girl and lies, she still has to leave b/c you know the truth and she can't cake eat on your watch.
You're sorry if she she doesn't have anywhere to go. You'll give her a chance to catch her breath and find a Residence Inn or something like that but she is going to change addresses if she is is going to sleep with other men. Big Girl Panties. Put 'em on.
Now I'm going to catch up on your story. Just wanted to get this out to you in a hurry before you HONORED her with a phone call. Don't do it.
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