Just thinking through my db goals for this week. Last R thing H said was three weeks ago. Asked me to make appt for mediation(its a non legal route towards separation where we come together with a mediator(not lawyer) to split assets, agree custody etc). I didn`t want to as I said I didn`t want to separate. But he went ahead and rang mediator anyhow. Now its up to me to make the call as H is not willing to reconcile.
I am ready to let him go.
I`d rather we saved the marriage.
But if he wants to go I think I should let him. Right?
I`m thinking I`ll call them this week. They`ll get back to him then and he`ll know we`re heading to mediation and separation for sure.
There`s a 14 week wait for first mediation appt.
Or should I just work the mysterious thing a bit more first? Out a lot of nights, all dressed up that type of thing? Or do both?
Have to say things are much calmer round here for the past weeks though heading I think for the lethal flatness.
You know my sitch best Cat, I value your wisdom!
Calling on Mach and Gucci for the male perspective and(gulp!)hard hitting advice!
