I no longer use body wash in my hair....

[peacetoday]

w8ing
Nice to read your post
I am sorry for the D
You sound strong and well grounded
I relate to the current situation with your STBX
my situation is similar
I protect my kids where I can
but the pain unfortunately is theres to work thru and Hopefully become stronger, better more compassionate people
MY XH also has somewhat still of a connection with the kids
he visits about 4 hours a week
cant wait to leave
he now picks them up outside
we rarely talk
that is ok
he M his 28 year old OW (she has 11 D living in another state)
he is also very ANGRY at me after 2 years of getting along so well
they get angry b/c we stop the fiasco
I stopped his spending
I got a great L
I took care of myself
so
I know it is sad but maybe oneday
they will reconize their part
and do their part to become better fathers
maybe not
the world is open for us though
blessings are everywhere
all is well
peace