I see the trust as individual to each sitch. It will depend on where the relationship ends up on the other side, what happened etc. One of those wait and see things for me I think.
Fallgirl,
ok, that silence! Depending on how I am feeling, radio etc to fill the gap. But if I am feeling strong I do finding Acting As If it is not there can shorten it / tone it down at this stage too. Didn't work earlier, but seems to help a bit now if I do it right. Not buying into it, you know? Kind of "dude, I am equal, have some space, but respect, ok" in my head. So I change what is in my head to defuse.
