My sitch...long but please indulge me

[billclay18]

Here's something I'm still struggling with. Since my W already thought weeks ago I'd be mad when she left, doesn't NC on my part confirm that in her mind rather than seeing it as me letting her go? I'm not saying I want to contact her just to "show" her I'm not mad or that I'm letting her go, I'm just thinking out loud. I would think telling her I'm fine with all of this in our discussion before she left, helping her get ready to move and the fact that I've filled out the D paperwork would be a clear indication I'm letting go.

Doesn't matter whether she thinks I'm mad, hurt, brokenhearted, etc or simply letting go, she'll proceed with the D if that's what she really wants regardless. At this point, there is no reason for any contact unless one of us wants to get the ball rolling with the D...or unless things change on her end. Until then, NC is the way to go.