WOW, Gucci, you were right about this jealousy thing. Got an email from the wife at 5 am that said the following.
"Please stop ignoring me. I suspect you're dating already, even though you said you wouldn't. I am very jealous and would rather know the truth than just suspect. I didn't think it would bother me but it really really really does.
Are you over me? I deserve to know if you know already. I'm the indecisive one, not you.
I dreamed of you all night last night. I took you for granted. You were right when you said I'd regret leaving and not coming back. I do regret it.
I just need closure I guess. This lack of communication really hurts. If it's a payback it's effective, for sure.
I miss you. Honestly."
Ok, I didn't tell her I was dating, just talking to someone. I am so so so tempted to just blast her but I keep reading what you've wrote about not being punitive. Some else on here said living a great life was the best payback also. I want to be rational but I also want to blast her so freaking hard right now because of the way she is acting.
I still don't want her back. So, any ideas on how to proceed other than what I've been doing? Should I just stay the course?
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!