Hey Cat, I was looking all over for you and finally found you. Sorry to hear that your H has messed up his life so much. But I am very happy to hear how healthy you sound. I know D is not easy and you're dealing with your kids and your H marring his whore, but you are handling it beautifully!
I hope you check in soon and let us know how you're making out.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track