my h tried to get me to sign too. no one in their right mind would do that without talking with a L. please find one. at least get a free consultation
also, so what if she wanted you to come see her? she could have written a letter about the reason for the meeting. she's just trying to manipulate you, and as you said, these visits have always been on her terms.
why are you guys living so far apart, and which country is she from?
also, i know you love her and how much pain you feel, but if you decide to just let her go and move on, no one will think any less of you.
she plays games and hurts you, over and over for the very same thing that she did. if she can't forgive you, let her move back to her country.
