That period of n/c was necessary because I had been pursuing and doing all the pre-DBing things so showed h I was 'safe' and he didn't feel pressured from me. It also helped me to be detached so I was no longer desperate when h did contact. This is why you are n/c at the moment Nell. It is quite important in the early stages.
Hi JCJ - thanks for the above. You reckon then for me to stay nc is the right thing at the moment? Re-working the days (and I have just checked his and my emails) there has been total NC for 4 whole days now!
I'm desperate to ask him about the grass and some financials but I just can't give in!!
How are you going??
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
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