Hi RSF

I've been reading along and following with interest. I was nearly a WAW myself, had an EA but didn't leave when it was discovered. My H left a couple of years later and is in a R with my former best friend. I want him back, but I know I hurt him and he's probably moved on much the same as your W. Gucci has good advise on what attracts a woman to a man, but what attracts a man to a woman, or more importantly what attracts a H back to his W when he's left? Anyone know the answer to that?

What was it that made you realise that you wanted your W back?


married 23 years
4 grown up kids