I hear that message Cas and it's good to have it reinforced by you - I had considered that point myself! The analysing time is not our friend!

I have been reading heaps of posts today and I keep on finding this word patience - any idea where I can get a bulk buy of that from??!!

It also struck me, when I was just making a cuppa, that it's after 3pm on Fathers Day and I had not even CONSIDERED sending H a text from the moggies! Guess I'm done with that one!!

How are you SURE that your H hasn't realised that you are not in contact?? That bit confused me slightly though I do understand about the work thing and them not having time to realise... surely when your H comes to the house he must then stop and think "haven't seen or heard from Cas in ages"??

Glad for the kids that they are getting to see H today but marvellous that they decided on no card/gift. Speaks volumes when kids do that, I would have thought!!


WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09