D rang H this morning and is having dinner with him tonight and staying over but that is a fairly regular Sunday night feature. S is working. Not sure what's happened between H and S today. S won't be home until 8ish. They didn't get cards or a gift for him although it was discussed.

H came by earlier to give D something she needed. I heard him ask her if she was home alone. She said no and that was it. It seems H hasn't even realised yet that I am not in contact! This is something for you Nell....because we are aware of the time since we made contact it doesn't mean they are. and don't forget that you and I have had a lot of idle time on our hands which is thinking, analysing time.....NOT GOOD!! Meantime, they've been busy at work and haven't stopped to realise that they haven't heard from us.