I just finished reading your post (lurking)…what a remarkable story. I truly hope you guys find it possible to be back into each other’s hearts once again. Your one statement about “looking back, it was obvious that I didn't want to pursue the divorce because I was so lackadaisical about getting the papers done” really stood out for me. Did you know you were stalling at the time or was it subconscious? My W threatened to file for divorce back in May, but did not. Just two weeks ago, my W again threatened to file for divorce. I’m yet to be served with papers.
I keep telling myself to follow her actions and not her words. Her words definitely suggest she wants out of this marriage. Her actions suggest something different. I’m just curious for your opinion from the female perspective. We do have plans for Retrovaille...I hoping we can make it through the next six weeks.
Kind Regards, LFH
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009
