Oh ladeez ... I hear you so clearly and can add to your observations.
My H has at times lately, gone all out in his acts and words ... not how we have ever been and he knows that I dislike such behaviour - such as the gestures when someone cuts him up on the freeway or someone is tailgating him. The actions are so primeval and I see no need for it!
When we see these things, it is much easier for us to detach.
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"