Wow this is what I don't look forward to is the dating and break up stuff, seems so hard when we are already struggling, although I am only 1 month into my situation so I may feel different later, I do hope that I find love one day with someone who doesn't want to give up in the middle of it.

I hope your talk and break up with your lady went well and that you can some day come to a place where you are free to give your heart. I do admire that you know your boundaries and stand up for what you want. Kudos to you.


Originally Posted By: KerryK
Yes, her parents live in a different time period. When I went to her church - her mother would not come near me because we had not been formally introduced.

The brother from California is in his 30's and is still in search of a virgin to marry. Good luck with that.


ME 45
Husband 47
Married 29 yrs
D 28
D 23
S 26
IDLYA -MLC- 7-25-09
Wants Divorce 8-18-09
Moved to another state W/OW