Just stopping by...I think you really do need to live alone, find yourself again and become 'whole' before you can enter into another relationship. It's lonely, I am experiencing that firsthand, but I think you gotta be happy yourself first. My h told me last night that he's not happy with himself. He doesn't like himself and isn't happy and has been faking it for a long time. He's in therapy and I hope he finds that happiness, but I'm going out there and grabbing my own and not waiting for him!
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
