The time/memory thing is amazing. I have heard "we said we were going to do that" (yes, over a year ago, where have you been?); "I really haven't been very present for the last six months" (only six months?) and a whole other bunch of wacky stuff. My H doesn't even remember many of the things he has said to me, S's schedule, or other things on most days. I guess his head is just too full. You know if I reminded him that he actually told me it was his time to be selfish, he probably wouldn't remember at all. I just have to remember myself that his feelings get so hurt if I dare to tell him how I feel, like you have become someone that I don't even think I like (well that isn't very nice), please don't talk to me (why?) and many more.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
