Well, to be honest he always had these tendancies. When we were at uni he was like that with his mates, and I was too with my friends. We both agreed we didn't like those traits so didn't act like that in front of each other, because that is just what it was, an act in front of friends. Not who we really were. I hope I don't come off as a prude, I'm aware that I can be a bit uptight sometimes but I go out and have fun with the best of them . I love to go out and drink and club and have fun but with a bit of class.
I don't know if it is part of the crisis. Going back to teenagehood etc, I have no idea. I don't take it as a reflection of our life together because I know that we were very happy before these new (as they were then) friends.
I have been pining a bit lately, maybe this is just what I needed to see. That is not what I want. If it is what he wants - fine go ahead. I don't have time for it. I know he is trying to impress people and it just does not impress me. Maybe that is why he isn't with me anymore.
It's not just the finger thing, it is the horrible exression on his face.
. I love to go out and drink and club and have fun but with a bit of class.
