Hey Bonny, Guess what the gray hair is well and truly in place for me...just lucky I've got a good hairdresser!! Your thoughts on the emotional/financial aspect of divorce are interesting. We only have no fault divorce here and our hold up is our business cos after divorce there's only 12 months for financial settlements. On the last argument H suggested a divorce as he always does when he gets angry and then it blows over. He has said he doesn't want a divorce but I don't know why.
Thanks Deep. I have read your sitch before as I know from your signature.....expecting No. 3 isn't too common on here!! I will go back and have another read and see if I'm on the money with one of the mildly exotic places I have mentioned.