Gosh, just venting I suppose as I haven't got anywhere else to but my h has just changed his picture on FB and it is a close up of him sticking his middle finger up. He looks like a complete ass - or as we pronounce in Southern England 'arse'
Ok, I might be perceived as 'old' or his mother or whatever but I'm sorry, that is not the kind of man I want. I do not want a man like that. He was so lovely, cultured and kind with me and this is how he acts these days, I have seen it more than once and it is also how she (ow) acts. Have a bit of decorum! Why bury your intelligence like that? He had a top class education. None of his school friends acted or act like this but his new mates do. A classic example was when we were moving and his sister's boyfriend came round to help and h started being laddy, I could see this act he was putting on. I DBed and didn't judge or react etc etc but you could see he felt silly being like that in front of me so it was very half-hearted. Maybe it isn't an act these days this is how he wants to be, I know he is only 27 blah blah blah but whatever it is, I'm not interested in that and for god's sake man, grow up and don't be so crass. Be a man. When I saw that picture I just thought to myself 'where have you gone?'. What an idiot.
