A few years back when my H and I was going through a hard time and she knew what he had been doing, she would defend him to me. Give me all the reasons why he would do these things because I was do this or not do that.
Anyway, like they have said blood is thicker than water. I have an ok relationship with mil right now but I don't say htings that are too indept about myself and my feelings. I know that my H still tells her his side of the story and that she hardly ever ask my side of it. He probably paints me in a bad light most of the time but I guess I don't care that much anymore.
I hope that your mil gets past this stage soon. I do not blame the in laws for not wanting to go to the holidays if the OW is going. Right now you are still married to the H and he really has no right to bring her around liek that.
I hope things get better with this soon
Me-31 Him-28 D1-9 D2-6 Married 5-06 Seperated 12-07 He filed 1-08 Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08 Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09 Filed for D 4-28-09 Trying to make a go of it 6-09
